Friday, September 26, 2008

the end of ponytails??

it's been 8 long weeks since my horrific haircut. for those 8 weeks i have done nothing with my hair but ponytails, messy buns and pigtails. this morning we didn't have a lot going on so i decided to try and actually do my hair. i was surprised to find that with a ridiculous amount of product and time (it took forever) it kind of works. the layers are not quite as fly away as they were, the extra growth has weighted them down a bit. and the extra product keeps the frizzies under control. but, due to the time issue, i still won't be fixing it very often. however, it is nice to know that the option is there should i so desire.


bella took the photos












this is a post that i started a few days ago and got sidetracked. i figured that since it was based on the same theme as this one, i would just combine them together.

i was fixing my hair this morning when a little shimmer caught my eye. upon closer inspection i found the source of the shimmer to be one lonely, stray grey hair. now a grey hair is nothing new to me. i have been pulling them out for years, but i must say that in the last 6 months the frequency of this find has increased tremendously. i proceeded in the normal course of action when this find occurs; quick pull with the tweezers and all is well again. however, unlike it's predecessors this hair was really long. usually they are very short, just starting out. but this one had been hanging around for awhile, camouflaging itself. is that how we turn grey? they hideout growing in secrecy and then you wake up one day and surprise! half your head is grey? now i understand that getting grey's is a part of life, but i simply am not ready for it! i want to remain in denial, thinking that by some miracle it isn't going to happen to me! i'm not ready to try and figure out what highlights and hair color i want to use to cover it all up. and can someone please tell me why they have to be so stiff and wiry?!??! is that what my whole head is going to look like? a mess of steel wool? these are the thoughts that run through my head when these finds occur. these are the stresses that they bring, silly and ridiculous as they are. and why is it that when men start turning grey they look distinguished and women just look, well older than they did before. and of course the most important thought of all....why do i let it bother me??

4 comments:

Laura Campbell said...

Your hair looks adorable down! You're so silly!

Olivia said...

Tammy, if you had a head of steel wool, I know you would be workin' that hair-do like it's hot, and then I'd go out a buy a steel wool wig so I could look like you--you look great no matter what, so stop worrying. Did it ever occur to you that letting your grays bother you might be the exact thing that is giving you those grays in the first place? Hmmmmmmm? :) :) ;)

kim cherry said...

i think your hair is adorable down. love it! i wish my hair was as full and thick as your locks! but, we always want what we don't have, huh. bella did a great job with the pic too. i love that it is on your front porch.

kim said...

i have never noticed any gray hair on your head, so you should not worry one bit. i have wondered as well why those hairs are so stinkin stringy and stiff. so annoying.